The 8 Simple Steps or we say tricks to Handle Any Parenting Situation anywhere!
INTRODUCTION
We parents deal every situation & go through every drastic situation. Parenting is an art in itself. I’m not sure everyone is quite veteran precisely.
Due to the several reasons like we all are often indulging in chores rather than our homing i.e, Office workloads like most of parents gives their several time to accomplish their pending assignments, emails & client deals and so on.
Ironically, Couldn’t fetch a bit of time for our family, for parenting as well.
1) Listen. Pause and listen to your child before springing into action or firing back a response. This means zipping your lip, biting your tongue, and accepting that a little parental silence can go a long way.
2) Let your child know you “get it.” Validate your child by repeating back a bit of what he or she said, even if you disagree or know they’re completely off base! This will open your child’s ears so your great suggestions are heard.
3) Be respectful. Talk to your child the same way you would to a friend or someone else’s child. Use this rule of thumb: If in the future, it wouldn’t be okay for your child’s significant other to say it, you shouldn’t say it either.
4) Set limits and boundaries. Choose limits that you’re willing to keep based on the situation at hand, not what happened yesterday or last year. This teaches your child that limits and boundaries are flexible, necessary and that he or she can handle them.
5) Take responsibility. Own your successes and apologize for your mistakes. Give yourself a do-over if you need it. Know that genuinely apologizing to your child is one of the most powerful things you can do, and the best way to teach your child to be accountable.
6) Have fun! When things get busy, it’s all too easy to get caught up in the routine and overlook the fact that your kids are fun. Don’t be afraid to stop the daily grind to laugh or get silly. Take time to notice the little things your child does or says that bring you joy.
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7) Practice self-care. Take great care of yourself so you can take great care of your kids. Know that even the best parenting plan or strategy won’t work well if you’re always exhausted or depleted. Make self-care a priority and do it unapologetically — your kids are counting on you!
8) Parenting, managing in exceptional situation.
How a parent could manage their family in the contemporary situation? (Covid-19)
“Specifically When all children remain in house premises”
We all are familiar with the current situation how we every family of this world in of every country’s every state’s jurisdiction are every family their most….of their precious spending at their home sweet home.
Nevertheless, we’ve given fewer restrictions as compared to last year.
But we all acknowledged the drastic experience of current as well as holy contemporary situations.
In that situation, a mountain of immense challenge arrived Infront of every normal parent.
The holy trouble is there for them, how to deal with all this? how to replenished everyone’s silly & often demands as well?
The solution is crystal clear For that I also have numerous problems with that perspective. Nevertheless, necessity is the mother of invention, now I’ve learned how to deal with that all this mess.
Yeah, interestingly I must tell you how to keep all our little monsters in peace & a calm state as well?
i) Firstly, as a parent or elder we must take responsibility for everything that whatever we gonna do its all are in our under control.
Because if we live in a hopeless situation then we can’t organise our family ever & ever.
ii) Secondly, now it's time to “tighten our waist up” make you believe after all we are parents before that situation. Eventually, there were a lot of calamities we’ve been already faced.
It also passed away too, consider the needs of every member of your family. For which that we could easily manage our entire family. Along with all the above-discussed things. We gonna need to establish a wholesome atmosphere at home like
For example: Playing games, Cooking & trying different recipes also fix a time to watch a particular TV programme and so on.
Due to this its generated a bond amongst all members of the family which is enough to sustain a positive vibes aura else on.
iii) last but not least, In the rest spare time divide some of your housework amongst all members especially children. As a result, it created a good habit of doing house chores among your children.
In contrast, we must say by applying all the above methodology. The whole family all set automatically. Indeed the family entirely would become support for each and everyone instead of spreading nuisance at home to make you irritated or depressed and all.
For reading that’s it my dear friends… it's my story, I use to apply & suggested my wife also recommended it to every family surrounds us. And now I’m advising you. “Thank you for appreciation”
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